How to Choose a Killer Domain Name in 5 Simple Steps

How to choose a perfect domain“How do I choose a good domain name?”

If I had a dollar for every time I was asked that question…

Well, I’d probably only have about $30, but that’s a lot of gelato.

And I get it. Knowing how to choose a domain name for your website is serious stuff. It’s usually one and the same as choosing a name for your entire business.

If only you could start a website without a domain name and think about it for awhile.

But you can't. You absolutely must have a domain name to start a website, and I don’t want the domain name to hold you up from taking action.

Believe it or not,  domain names do not have to be all that difficult to choose. You can choose a great domain name in under an hour. And you will, after reading this post.

Stress-free since ’93.

Why Domain Names Matter

Alright, so you might wonder what all the fuss is with domain names. Why do they matter so much?

Put simply, your domain name is the very first point of contact that your audience has with your brand, your blog, or your business.

Your domain name is part of your brand, and it’s a big part of it.

Studies show that your first and last name directly affect the success you’ll have in life. Do you think it’s any different for your domain name? Likely not.

Even if you don’t emulate your domain name, people will automatically make assumptions and hold on to those biases about your domain. is going to hold some negative biases. It just sounds spammy, right? But sounds far more trustworthy.

There are a few properties of an awesome domain name:

4 Properties of a Killer Name

  • Property one: Your domain has something to do with the product, service, or niche you’re in. There are examples of people who avoid this and do it effectively (for instance, has nothing to do with Rowdy Kittens), but it’s always good to go for the obvious.
  • Property two: Your domain name should be short. A good rule of thumb is that it should be between 1-3 words. If you’re considering a longer domain name, think about how difficult that would be for people to remember, and for you to say if you were to tell people about your website at a party. What’s easier to remember: or
  • Property three: Your domain name absolutely must be memorable. That means it shouldn’t be spelled in a weird way, it shouldn’t use words that people don’t use in normal English, and it doesn’t have a ton of hyphens, dashes or words in it. If I had chosen instead of, it may have communicated what the site is about a bit better, but it certainly wouldn’t have been as memorable. 
  • Property four: The final property that makes a great domain name is that it should be in line with your branding, or the mood you want to convey. For example; if you heard the name, you wouldn’t expect the site to be a serious blog, right? And it’s not. It’s  fun site for young girls. Consider how the bank Tangerine differs from TD Canada Trust. They’re both banks, but TD definitely conveys a more corporate, serious, bankerly type feel than Tangerine, which is fun, young and fresh.

What Should It End With? (.Com vs .Net or .Org)

SEO “gurus” might tell you that you absolutely must have a .com domain. They say that Google favors .com domains to the point that if you have a .com, you’ll show up in search engine results more.

The logic behind this seems to be that because a .com is a top-level domain (as is a .net, .org, .gov and .edu), Google will recognize it and rank results with a .com domain higher than another.

This is simply not true. Matt Cutts, who is the head of the web spam team at Google debunked this:

how to choose a domainSo if we’re being real, the only reason that a .com is better than the others is because a .com is easier to remember.

You can work around that and rock a domain with a different suffix by using the suffix in conversation. For instance, when I’m referring to Unsettle in conversation, I always say “Unsettle dot org”, because I don’t own the .com, and I know that would be the assumption.

There are plenty of awesome domain names that aren’t a .com, and some that are very popular:

So, while a .com is preferred, it’s not necessary and a different domain ending won't ruin your search engine rankings.

What About Using Your First and Last Name?

If you've ever considered starting a blog or website, this question has probably run through your head.

Should you just use your first and last name or some variation of that as your domain name?

The answer to this really depends on what you're building.

Why you should consider using your first and last name:

  • You are looking to establish yourself as an expert in your topic: If you're looking to become a coach or consultant or even an author in your field, using your name could make sense.
  • Your branding is going to mainly consist of you and your personality: First of all, let's just start by saying that you are not your business. But, if you plan on using your unique personality to brand your business, using your name can be a great way to bring it all together.
  • You don't have a clear vision of what your website will be in a few years: Maybe you're thinking about going in a different direction in a few years – or maybe you're simply unsure of where it will go. If you are starting a food website but may switch gears eventually to include parenting, then using your name will make it so you don't have to start from scratch.
  • Your name won't change: If you're already married or not planning on taking your spouses' name when you do get hitched, then you're in the free and clear.
  • You're indecisive about a domain name and it's holding you back: You can always change your domain. But you can't get back time – and time wasted could mean another month in a job you don't love.

Why you should not consider using your first and last name:

  • Your name is difficult to spell or pronounce: You don't want people having a difficult time finding you (that's lost money).
  • You want the option to eventually sell your site: Even if you don't think it will come up, it's still a good idea to consider this.
  • You plan on changing your name: Whether you just don't like your name and plan on changing it one day or want to take your spouses' last name when you get married, it's just a hassle to change things over.

There are plenty of people who have used their first and last names as a domain name a la, but the decision is yours – and there's no right or wrong answer.

Now that we’ve addressed that, we can go onto how to choose a domain name that you’ll love.

How to Choose a Domain Name in 5 Simple Steps

I'm going to walk you through exactly the process I used to pick Unsettle as my domain name in under an hour.

It's simple, and I've condensed it into five steps just for you.

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Onto the steps!

Step 1: Start Brainstorming

Now that you know what makes a great domain name, you can start brainstorming.

The first step is to brainstorm words and phrases related to your topic.

Don’t screen out a word or phrase just because you don’t like it. List any word or phrase that comes to mind.

Here is an example of words I wrote down when I was brainstorming for Unsettle. Don't mind my messy writing.

how to choose a domain name

Write down all of the words you can think of. Even if you hate them.

Step 2: Make a Date With Your Thesaurus

You have a list of words and phrases related to your topic, so now it's time to find synonyms for those words.

I use for this. If you’re working in a Word document, you can highlight the word, right click, and see a list of synonyms.

Write down all of the synonyms. Even if you hate the word, just include it in your list.

Don’t be afraid to go on a word spree here. It’s okay to go down a rabbit hole – the idea here is quantity, not quality. Yet.

Find synonyms for your synonyms. It took me at least 5 levels of synonyms to find Unsettle. It all started with the word “redesign”.

Step 3: Let a Program Do it For You

Don’t you wish you could just wave a magic wand and have a bunch of ideas you would never have found otherwise?

Well, you’re in luck. The internet is a pretty nifty place, and there's a website fort that.

There are many domain name generators, but my favorite is probably Panabee. Start plugging in words from your list and let the program generate ideas for you.

Write down the ones that you like.

If you scroll down on Panabee, you’ll find a list of other synonyms for your words. You may find that you discovered all of those synonyms in Step 2, but if not, include them.

Step 4: Cull the List

Now that you have dozens and dozens of words and synonyms for the original words you came up with, plus the additions from a domain name generator, go down the list and cross out any that you don’t like.

Here are some tips:

  • Cross out any potential names that are over 3 words long
  • Remove any potential domain names that don’t align with the brand you’re going for
  • Remove any that aren’t easy to spell or remember

If you're unsure, run it by somebody you trust. Sometimes we get too emotionally invested in something but it doesn't make sense to anybody but ourselves.

Narrow your list down to the three that you like the best. Then…

Step 5: Find Out if The Domain is Available

Now that you've narrowed down your list of potential domain names, you just need to check to see if they're available.

There are dozens of websites you could use for this, so just try or Godaddy's Domain Search. Unless you already have hosting and know how to change the domain nameservers over (don't worry if you don't understand that), then don't buy the domain from these sites. You're just seeing if they are available.

Check your favorite three domains. We already know that a .com is not necessary, but if you like two the same amount and one is available in a .com and the other isn't, then let the .com availability be the tie-breaker.

And a quick word of caution: most domains that are 1-2 words in a .com are actually premium domains so will cost a lot. For instance, my name, which is very common, is almost $2,000:

how to choose domain name

If you have the budget for it, then go for it! But if you’re a normal person and don’t want to spend the amount of a (junky) used car on a domain name just to have the privilege of a .com, then you have a few options:

  • Take out a letter (Like Pat Flynn's
  • Change the end of the word (ie I could have chosen Unsettled, or Unsettling)
  • Consider a .org or .net instead of a .com.

If you're still trying to choose between two or three, crowdsource it! Find out from a few people you trust which they prefer.

Now, It's Time to Take Action

Lock down the domain name. If you don't have hosting for your website yet, I would just buy the domain through the web host so you don't have to fuss around with changing nameservers over. Again, if you don't know what that means, that's okay. It just shows that you should probably buy the domain with the host.

With Bluehost, your domain will be free. I use Bluehost for a few of my sites because their customer service is great, my sites are always up and you get a free domain name when you sign up.

If you sign up with Bluehost, my recommended hosting provider, you can get a free domain name.

Sign up for Bluehost here:

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If you sign up with Hostgator, the domain won't be free but you can still register the domain with Hostgator if you prefer their hosting.

Whether you buy your domain through a third-party domain provider or your web host, I always find that when I take action on something, it helps me gain momentum.

And there's no way you got this far and don't want to take action.

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37 Comments on “How to Choose a Killer Domain Name in 5 Simple Steps”

  1. Sarah – I truly always thoughts your domain name was one of the best I’ve seen. Short and startling (or should I say “unsettling”)? Kudos.

  2. This is step by step guide for all the bloggers who are either new in blogging or want to setup their bloggin career.

    Thanks for sharing this in-depth knowledge about registering a domain name.

  3. Thank you for writing this. I can’t remember how many times I’ve started a blog, or writing ideas for a book only to put it on the back burner because I was stuck on finding “the perfect” name. This really helped. Thanks again!

  4. Hi Sarah, I really appreciate the way you have presented your thoughts. You are right that choosing the right domain name is one of the most crucial parts of online businesses. Yes, it doesn’t matter which extension you are using for your domains. It doesn’t matter if it starts with a .com extension or anything else when it comes to SEO or getting ranked Google. I did not like the idea of using a software for domain ideas. It doesn’t make us creative and think out of the box when we think about our business. However, good article. Just wanted to share my thoughts. Have a good day …Sarah.

  5. Hey Linh,
    I’m so happy it was helpful! I see you chose one – congratulations!

  6. Great article, Sarah, love your enthusiasm and encouraging way of leading your readers through each step in turn.
    Well done, that girl 🙂

  7. Really a great article…The article contains all the things that I was searching since two days..Thanks a lot..

  8. I am sooo glad I found you! I have been reading ebooks and blogs on how to start and build a blog for about a month and was going to just jump in and start. This article made me step back and realize I DO need a plan. I need to get all my ducks in a row, then launch. You have inspired me!

  9. Awesome, Kenneth – I tried to make it an ultimate resource so I’m glad you’ve found it on-point 🙂

  10. This is probably going to sound nerdy, nitpicky, or just a grammar freak, but as a former software engineer, I.T. Consultant, Lecturer in Business and I.T., with over 20year’s experience as either a student, lecturer or professional in the industry, I feel qualified to comment.

    HARDWARE – The word means all the computers in the world. A piece of hardware is an individual item, or a particular item like a PC desktop box, or for example, a computer mouse is a piece of hardware. (etc)

    SOFTWARE – The word is like Cake. CAKE is used to mean all the cake in the world. However, unlike cake, you can’t have a ‘software’, but you can have a piece of software (just like a piece of cake).

    I’m sorry for those that think I’m wrong, but unlike many, I began studying computers 30+ years’ ago, and the Queen’s English almost 6 decades ago. Writing software (which I did) makes you very precise in your definitions, or you risk planes, and other mission critical software controlled devices going awry.

  11. Sorry… I got an apostrophe in the wrong place… Noticed it after hitting post. (year’s, should have been years’)

  12. Great article! I have a quick question though. What if you secure an amazing website name, only later to find out the equivalent social media names at places such as Twitter are already taken?
    Everything I have read says it is extremely important for everything to be the same. However, with so many people in the world it can be tough to make this flow properly. Especially with the letter amount cut offs for Twitter and Instagram per example, your name may be too long anyway. Will abbreviating your domain name cause people not to be able to find you on other social media platforms?

    Thank you so much 🙂

  13. Hey Mandy! All good questions – if you’re concerned about social media handles, you could just look the handles up to see whether they’re available right before you buy your domain and hosting…

    But I personally don’t see the importance of having social media handles the same as your domain name – people don’t look you up on social media (we’re lazy as a rule, haha) they find you on social media by clicking buttons through your website. Also, social media is generally way better to be personal on – people follow people, not faceless brand names and domain names. That’s why my Twitter is @petersonsar and my Instagram is my name as well, rather than Unsettle.

    That’s my two cents!

  14. Great article, thank you so much. I have recently opened an etsy store and had 1 sale….I am going to try all of your tips to get more traffic and buy in my store. Thanks once again~

  15. Such generousity ! Kept waiting for the catch which of course never came. You deserve, and will have all you wish for in life. From someone who feels they have a lot to offer others but until now hadn’t a clue how to start. Thank and God bless you Sarah .

  16. Hey Sarah,
    Found this article at the right time, I’m about to start my blog and was brainstorming for domain name. The article did help a lot

  17. Great info Sarah. I knew most of these rules in choosing a website so reading this today as a reminder of how to choose a website for what purpose solidified the choice that I have for my Shopify store.
    Super Thanks!

  18. a sarah just want to thank you for the info about finding a domain the easy way .I wish I would of found your website 10 years ago .

  19. LOVED this article! Thank you! I settled on … longer, I know, but I think it’s memorable and conveys the message perfectly 🙂

  20. And what about domain which has nothing to do with my niche and topic? ridiculous absurd?

  21. Hi Sarah, thanks for the useful info. I’m considering a domain with my initials. Should I capitalize them in the domain name or does it matter? Will it affect a search? i.e. justBNhome for a lifestyle blog
    Thanks for the help

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